John, you are right, it is a small world and that sounds exactly like Doug. You are also right about this being sacred time. We have been lucky enough in our life together to each do a profession that gives us satisifaction. We were lucky enough to realize a decade or more ago, that quality of life and especially our relationship, was what was most important. Our time left together is unknown, but I do take some comfort that we have spent many years together nurturing each other. It did not take this event for us realize how much we love each other.
RadRab, if there is a cure in positive thought, then the deed is done. My husband is busy living and not the least bit interested in not beating this.
Thanks for your good thoughts, guys
Lynn