Recently, I've been skiing with members of a race team and they are just a bunch of fun to ski with. Serious and dedicated, their technique centers about racing turns. Not pretty, but, they leave trenches and are way faster than me. No love for PSIA, no knoweldege of Harb, the bible for present is a book by Frank LeMaster and some USSA Racing publications. Most have been heavy into recreational racing for many years and winters are planned around a racing schedule. Many love to discuss technique. I am confounded by lack of a common dictionary. It's challenging and amusing to try and discuss technique as we just don't speak the same dictionary, and, movement based skiing is unknown.
I don't have the chops to tell them there MAY be a better way....mostly, just keep quiet. If someone knocked on your door with a message and invitation to find the truth in some area of life, I think I know what your response would be.

So for those of you who enter into technique discussions, how do you respond? What words do you have if someone asks for an opinion? Can active listening skills be used when you just plain disagree? Can you, or should you, try to use influencing skills? Sometimes, I relate to the Bill Clinton quote - " It all depends on what your definition of "is"..."is"!